Today I moved Adelaide's crib upstairs, and changed it back into a crib from a daybed. Myles and I decided that upstairs will be where we all sleep (we already do) and Adelaide's room will be her play room. I was wanting to put a twin bed in there and maybe try to get her to nap in there, but our house is so tiny, AND we love sleeping with her close. I have loved having her in our bed, but I don't get very good sleep. Actually I'm not sure if any of us do (other than Punkie of course). She is quite the bed hog, and does lots of kicks and spins in her sleep.
Today I took the whole crib apart to get it upstairs, and then put it back together. Adelaide knows that is "her bed" and was excited to see it upstairs. SO and nap time I tried to get her to fall asleep in there. I spent almost two hours, and in the end picked her up and rocked her until she was almost asleep, and then put her back in there to fall asleep. It was hard work, but I knew I had to stick to my guns, otherwise every time I put her in there she will think she can make a fuss and get out.
Tonight she asked me to put her in her bed after she had her milk. Then she tossed and turned while I rubbed her back and sang to her. I kept sitting on the bed and holding her hand through the slats in the crib...wondering if she felt like she was in baby jail. She seemed happy in there though, and after coming out for a poop break, she eventually fell asleep on her little pillow while I held her hand. She didn't even try to stand up or get out. She is so sweet.
And now we have a few plans. The first plan is to possibly stop giving her naps. It sounds crazy I know, but she has never been a good napper, and it seems like it makes bedtime that much harder. Yesterday we laid down for some quite time, and she never took a nap. She was happy and active all day, and then went right to sleep at bedtime. We are going to try that for a few days. Of course I will lay down with her to nap if she seems really tired, but if not, we will just stay up! I really love naps and usually take one with her, so this is sad for me, but I think it's right for her.
The other plan is to keep putting her to bed in her crib. I will hold her hand for the next few nights (if she wants me to) and the next step will be for her to fall asleep with me sitting by the crib, but not touching her. After that we might have a kid that we can actually just "put to bed". I will keep bringing her into bed at night when she wakes up. Maybe I will put her back in the crib once she is asleep again, maybe not. I'm trying to be easy going with the whole thing. I just know that it's almost time to start weaning, and I think all of these things will make that easier.
Now her room has a LOT MORE room to play! We need to get a big rug in there, and maybe a few shelves on the walls to make it feel warmer and more welcoming. My dad is making her a dollhouse AND a little kitchen...so it won't take us long to fill up that space. I hope this all works out as it seems like it will!